Once upon a
time a father and son were discussing the importance and significance of
success. The son finally said, “It must
be great to be famous and have people remember your name, like Paul Revere. Now he was a great man.”
The father
responded, “Yes, Paul Revere was a great and memorable man, but do you know the
name of his horse?”
Of course
the boy did not, nor do we, for history does not record its name.
The father
then said, “Did you ever stop to think that Paul Revere could not have taken
the ride if it had not been for the horse?”
That causes
me to pause and ponder. Who has helped
bring me to this moment in my life? I
did not arrive here on my own. Some of
my influencers have been my wife, teachers, parents, siblings, authors,
speakers, and friends along the way who have contributed to my present
state.
From time to
time I like to reflect on some of these individuals and whisper a word of
gratitude for their influence and guidance.
If they happen to still be alive, I’ll occasionally picked up the phone
just to say ‘Hi’ and ‘Thanks’, or send a quick email.
I have a
friend who is now a successful pastor of a large church in New Mexico. When we reconnected on Facebook after an
absence of many years we now keep in touch.
In one of his posts, my friend Larry said, “Of all the good influences
in my life, you were the first.”
Wow! When I first met him Larry was a teenager in
my youth group. He had a lot of zeal but
few skills and only a vague sense of what he wanted to do with his life. I befriended him, we spent time together, I
continually gave him opportunities to grow and expand.
After I left
Albuquerque, he graduated high school and went on to college – incidentally the
college I attended. He got his degree,
came back to New Mexico and accepted the pastorate of a small 30-member
congregation.
He continued
on, went to seminary, moved to a large church in Ohio, and then back to his New
Mexico roots to an even larger congregation.
He is now Doctor Larry, married to Lisa, with kids and grandkids, and a
church that is thriving and growing. And
he thanked me for being an early influencer.
How amazing
is that.
Today would
be a dandy day for us to make the connection with someone who has been a major
player in our lives.
I’m
thankful.
I remember!
P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement
Inspiration
One Word at a Time
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