Showing posts with label Manners. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Manners. Show all posts

Saturday, August 4, 2018

The Sweetest Sounds


The Sweetest Sounds

Carolyn and I attended a series of jazz performances last weekend.  We heard some sweet sounds from the likes of John Clayton, Jeff Hamilton, and a great host of other greats.  Man alive, I was in my version of heaven.

Want to know how you can produce your own sweet sounds?  Praise others.

Give praise liberally and generously.

~Sprinkle it on your grandkids, kids, step-kids, parents, siblings, employees. 
~Give a dose to your grocery clerk, your insurance agent, your dry-cleaning owner. 

And then watch for the magical moment when the recipient reacts with a smile, an acknowledgement, or a flicker of joy. 

What a gift! 

What a sound!


This is what is on
my mind today.


P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement
Inspiration


Sunday, July 8, 2018

Won't You Be My Neighbor


Won’t You Be My Neighbor

Carolyn and I went to see Won’t You Be My Neighbor Friday night.  I was deeply touched by the simple messages of hope and esteem that this man, Fred Rogers, presented.  He gave us esteem, wholesome concepts like honesty, acceptance, responsibility and many other great concepts, during his fifty years of being in the public eye.

And in his theme song, this lyric speaks loudly today.  “Would you be mine?”.

The full lyric is”
“So, let’s make the most of this beautiful day.
Since we’re together we might as well say:
Would you be mine??

I have to couch this in the context of what I’m seeing in our world today, especially in America.  I have been threatened no less than ten times to be unfriended because of the way I voted in the last election.  I have been accused of having less than righteous morals, poor judgment, lacking in mental acuity, and just being plain un-American. 

This is wrong!  It is wrong on so many levels. 

My friends, I live next door to you.  I shop in the same grocery store and buy my gas at the same places you do.  I attended the same college/university as you.  In many cases, I attended the same denominational church you attended.  And now … just because I made a different choice from you, I am a lesser specimen. 

I don’t think so. 

My view … we are neighbors.  You may live in Tennessee, New Mexico, or any other parts of this great land, yet we are neighbors.  The globe has shrunken to ‘everybody is my neighbor.’ 

I never get far from this John Kennedy quote:

Our most basic common like is that
we all inhabit this planet. 
We all breathe the same air. 
We all cherish our children's future. 
And we are all mortal. 


We get to choose.  We get to vote as we see fit.  We get to voice our opinions.  And it stops there.  We don’t coerce, we don’t force a decision for who or what or how to believe, and we don’t threaten or commit violence if we don’t get our way.  After all, we all breathe the same air.  And we cherish our futures and those of our kids and grandkids.

We are reasonable adults, and I call upon reasonable and responsible actions from all of us in managing our frustrations, our angst, our disappointments and our concerns. 

And, perhaps, I call for prayer for ALL of our leaders.  A L L !

I hope to God a civil war never shows its ugly face on our land again.  I pray for tolerance, understanding, and a grand sense of “won’t you be my neighbor” to come sweeping over all of us.

What do you say … neighbor?


This is what is on
my mind today.


P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement
Inspiration

Monday, February 22, 2016

These Still Work

Some things wear out with use.  I’ll be needing new tires for my Taurus soon. 

Carolyn likes to purge my sweaters from time to time, for the ones she gets rid of are looking picked and pulled and perhaps stained.   They don’t work any longer.

Here are a couple of phrases that still work.

“Yes Ma’am” and Yes Sir.”

People with manners use these words.
I use them with the younger members of my team at work.  And with customers I serve.

I believe in showing good manners.



I believe in Yes Ma’am and Yes Sir.


P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement Inspiration
One Word at a Time