Friday, June 22, 2012

Relentlessly Give Credit



Relentlessly Give Credit

Seth Godin, author and business specialist writes a daily blog that I find insightful.  He can say so much in just a few key strokes.

For instance:  “Relentlessly give credit.” 

Relentlessly give credit.

Everybody has ideas, and at times someone you work with will have a great idea.  But do we give credit where credit is due? 

Ah, that is what we are talking about. 

Give credit. 
                   Honor. 
                               Cite the source. 

Don’t steal the idea.  That is such a seemingly unnecessary comment, but you and I could chat for a long while telling horror stories of how this simple principle has been violated.

We honor others when we recognize their ability to think pro-actively and create a solution to whatever the issue is at hand. 

We honor and respect a person when we relentlessly give credit.

When the occasion arises and you have an opportunity to offer public praise, by all means avoid the temptation to first use a cheap joke.  Just give sincere and appropriate credit where credit is due.

That is a major way to win with people.


P Michael Biggs
Appreciation in Sight
One Word at a Time

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

What Do You Need



What Do You Need

My doctor has been putting me through a battery of medical exams lately.  Most recently I had the dreaded colonoscopy.  Hated drinking the stuff, but did just perfectly during the procedure.  I received a clean bill of health.  I needed the specialist who conducted the test; otherwise we’d never know the exact status of my medical health. 

Who do you need?

My wife came up behind me last Friday, put her arms around my neck, and gave me a hug and a kiss.  I needed that.  What a nice moment. 

What do you need?

Often, after posting a blog, I’ll hear from someone as to how my words have impacted their life.  I need to know that from time to time my writing is making a difference somewhere in the world. 

What do you need?

-In August I’ll be flying to Tennessee for a family reunion.  I need the airline pilot.
-Tomorrow Carolyn and I go off on a three-day holiday.  We need the room to be ready and the food to be properly prepared by human hands.

What do you need?

-Adia and Eliot came for a visit recently.  They were working on some craft Carolyn designed to keep them occupied.  At one point Eliot couldn’t get the cap off a bottle of water color stuff.  He needed my help.

What do you need?

-I am not a gardener.  I need gardeners who are skillful and can grow delicious foods for our table.

-I couldn’t milk a cow if my life depended on it.  I need dairy farmers.

-I use computers but I couldn’t build one if I had to.  I need techno artists.

-We need a thousand individuals every day to build, make, open, close, produce, and invent the stuff of life.  We couldn’t get along without them.  We need them.

-I need police officers around to assure that we live in a reasonably safe world.  Merle, my police office friend, is a needed entity in my life. 

-We need our military men and women faithfully doing their duty every day to help stabilize our world and our interests. 

-I need friendships.
  -I need love from my siblings.
  -I need love from my step-children.
 -I need love, hand-holding, back rubs, and togetherness from my wife.

What do you need?

I need you, and you need me to.

In friendship
In trust
In good citizenship
In good morals
In integrity
In kindness
In being a fellow traveler on this planet.


Now that you know you need someone, tell them, and say the words of appreciation.  They need that most of all.

We really do need each other.


P Michael Biggs
Encouragement in Sight
One Word at a Time

Saturday, June 16, 2012

The BIA Said "No"




The BIA Said “No”

It was a good thought. Novel even.
It had teeth in it, it was sound and I thought it was clever.

But the BIA said “no”.

Who is this BIA you ask?

The Bureau of Idea Approval, that's who.

You don’t know about that bureau?

They exist. Oh boy, do they exist.

Every time we come up with an idea of merit, there is always someone, even our own minds, to throw a dozen reasons at us as to why this idea will not work.

Will we listen to them?
Or are we going to believe in our own ideas?

The BIA exists solely to pounce on our ideas and pass judgment or blessing on any idea we may generate.

Ideas are abundant.

I have huge spurts of idea flow and sometimes I can’t seem to write fast enough to capture them.

What to do?

A few suggestions:


First:  Evaluate your idea.  Test it in as many ways as you feel is useful.  Talk with trusted friends and experts.  Do whatever research is demanded for the size of your idea.

Next:  Decide if you really feel passionate about the idea and then put your plan together and go for it. 

And if you do feel passion, then there is only one move left.

Do it!

Most of the time great ideas boil down to one’s passion factor.

How strong is your passion? 

After you answer these questions in the affirmative, then it is time to develop a plan and put your dream to work.

Don’t let the BIA (Bureau of Idea Approval) kill your dream before it gets out of the chute.  At least let it breathe the air of discovery and consideration.

I love creativity.

I hate governors.

Governors slow me down.  They stifle me.  They get in my way.

Sometimes it comes down to the “will of the matter.”

In the book Tribes, Seth Godin asks, do we have the "will to make the ideas happen?"

That is the secret.

The Will to Make Ideas Happen.

Sometimes we need to tell the BIA to take a hike.


P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement Inspiration
One Word at a Time

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

I'm Proud of You


I’m Proud of You


Little kids do it a hundred times on any playfield on any day in the world.  They beg for it.  They crave it.  They long for it. 

“Watch me.”  And if you ignore them for just a moment you’ll hear it again, said even more loudly, “Mommy. Daddy.  Watch me.”

They want to be noticed.  They want to be seen. 

What they really want is this -- to make you proud of them.

Everyone wants someone who will come along at some point in our lives and say simply “I’m proud of you.”

Magic words.
          Powerful words.
                    Important words. 

Needed words.


This desire is tied into who we are, and who we see ourselves to be.  And it helps us form our identity as to our likeability, our success quotient and our staying power in social circles.




So simple to say.  So needed to hear.

Almost every time, after I publish a blog, Carolyn will come to me, or send me an email or a text message and whisper words to the effect of “I’m proud of you.”

Oh how those expressions warm my heart.  How they fill me, lift me, encourage me.  They make me float three feet off the ground. 

And knowing human nature as I think I do, those kinds of expressions inflate your sails as well.  They fill you, lift you, and elevate you.

And they should. 

Let me encourage you today to find someone, someone close to you, some relative, some child or grandchild, some employee, some co-worker.  Slide up next to them and dare to whisper these four magic words.  Then walk away.  Don’t linger.  Don’t expect any kind of reciprocal response in return.  Just give and go. 

The gift you just gave will have staying power, and it will live long after you’ve forgotten about giving it.

Improve someone’s day.

Give the gift of “I’m Proud of You.”


P Michael Biggs
Encouragement in Sight
One Word at a Time

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Can You See It?


Can You See It?


There is a lot of talk and writing these days on the subject of visualization – movies of the mind.  What a concept!

Denis Waitley, speaker, author and psychologist, has told many stories of his experiences when he was on the sports medicine team for the Olympic committee in the eighties.  He related that when an athlete would mentally rehearse their event in his/her mind, the brain would send signals to the muscles and the synapses would fire as if the athlete was actually performing their event.  They saw their event first on the movie of their mind, and then they performed it, just like running a script.

Jack Nicklaus once said, “I never hit a golf shot without having a sharp picture of it in my mind.”  He used the visualization technique on every shot. 

Where do I want to ball to land? 
         Picture the trajectory. 

What does my swing look like? 
                       Picture that perfect swing every time.

When we can picture the picture perfectly, sooner than one might think we are able to see it in real time.  Just like in drill.

John Assaraf, one of the featured personalities in The Secret, tells about creating a vision board with his dream home pictured on it.  Five years later, while unpacking some boxes after moving into a new home, he realized he was now living in that very home that he had pictured both in his mind and on his vision boards. 

There is power in broadcasting the movies of the mind. 

I have a physician friend who practices surgical procedures in his mind the night before an important surgery.  He imagines holding the implements he will use, and the exact steps he will follow for a successful surgery. 

My wife once worked for Dr. David Le Shana when he as President of Seattle Pacific University.  During one of our visits David verified the following story for me.

When he was President of Taylor University, he had the privilege of calling on J.C. Penney, founder of the stores that bear his name.

When Dr. Le Shana was ushered into Mr. Penney’s office, he found Mr. Penney sitting at his desk looking at Dr. Le Shana’s business card.  He was moving it back and forth attempting to bring it into better focus. 

As Dr. Le Shana approached, Mr. Penney looked up and said, “You’ll have to excuse me.  I’m losing my vision.”

He slammed his hand down on the desk and stated emphatically.


“No, that’s not right.  I’m losing my eyesight.  I’ll never lose my vision.”





That’s the heart of what we’re talking about.  Never Lose Your Vision. 

Can you see clearly?



P Michael Biggs
Hope in Sight
One Word at a Time

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Recap of The Words of Aspire



When I first discovered Kevin’s book Aspire it was apparent that this was a gem that would prove to be a valuable resource for many years to come.  I remarked once that “I have just finished reading this book, but I’ll never be finished reading it.”

So true.  It is the kind of book one will want to dip into from time to time. 

Now, here is a recap of the eleven words of Aspire.



#1  Genshai:  Means “you should never treat another person in a manner that would make them feel small, and that includes yourself!”  


#2  Pathfinder:  A pathfinder is a leader.  “The first part of leader is lea – which means path; the second part – der means finder.”  A Pathfinder sees and shows the way.” Being a leader means finding the path, but before you can help someone else find their path, you must know your own.”


#3  Namaste:  The essence of the meaning of this word is … “You are an unrepeatable miracle”.  Your fingerprint and your footprint are unique to you alone.  You eye can be used for identification because of the unique patterns found inside.  Even your voice vibrates at a frequency unmatched by any other on earth.  You are unique.  You are special.  You have a touch of divinity flowing within you.  That is “Namaste”.


#4-Passion:  Passion is paying a price.  Kevin says, “When one discovers what he/she is willing to pay a price for, then we have discovered our life’s mission and purpose.  Passion is being willing to suffer for what you love.”


#5-Sapere Vedere:  Sapere means knowing how, Vedere means to see
Sapere Vedere is knowing how to see.  In Tennessee, I often heard the phrase “I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.”  Kevin says, “Those with sapere vedere say ‘I’ll see that bridge before I cross it’.”

#6-Humility:  “The origin of “humility” is the Latin word “humus”, meaning soil, specifically rich, dark, organic soil.  When a seed is planted in fertile soil, it transforms into something far greater.  It is the giant oak awaiting in the acorn, or the next great idea read in a book by a hungry student. 

#7-Inspire:  “The meaning of the word ‘inspire,’ comes from the Latin ‘inspirare.’  ‘Spirare,’ means to breathe, and ‘in’ implies intoTo inspire is to breathe into.”

#8-Empathy:  “Empathy is another word that springs from the soil.  ‘Pathy’ comes from path, and ‘em’ is in.  Empathy is walking the path of another.”  If you don’t get on another’s path, if you don’t go where he or she has gone, you can’t truly understand what that person is experiencing.”


#9-Coach:  Coach means something or someone who carries a valued person from where they are to where they want to be.  Coaches are teachers.  They see potential where it is but a small, seemingly insignificant bud poking its head through the dirt.


#10-Ollin:  Pronounced All-in is derived from “yollotl” meaning heart and “yolistli” meaning lifeOllin means ‘to move and act now with all your heart’.  Ollin is also connected to “opportunity”.  The root word is “port”, meaning the entryway by water into a city or place of business.  Only those who recognized the opening could take advantage of the open port.  Ollin people not only go and strive but they also recognize openings, passageways to other opportunities awaiting their discovery.


#11-Integrity:  “Integrity” comes from the Latin “integer” which in math refers to a whole number.  Integrity of one’s word means our word is whole and complete.  

“Being whole and complete with our word entails living one hundred percent of our word, one hundred percent of the time.”


My hope is that this has been a worthy word study for you in your pursuit of an Aspiring life.



P Michael Biggs
Hope and Encouragement in Sight
One Word at a Time

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Integrity - The Words of Aspire (#11 of 11)



Integrity
Lesson #11 in an Eleven-part series based on Aspire by Kevin Hall




Integrity is one of those strong words that a lot of people toss about as a badge of honor to be worn.  And it is an honor to have the word “integrity” attached to your name.  Usually, it happens at the end of a life well lived.  Individuals build on the good things they do in their lives, and especially the character traits they exude, and if we are fortunate, when we are reaching for the finish line, the plaudits sound like this:  “He/She is a person of integrity.  He/She lived a worthy life.  He ran his race well.”

What a tribute. 


What is this word Integrity all about?  Let’s dissect it with Kevin’s help.  

“The popular modern definition of integrity is one of being honest and having strong moral conviction, but its roots go much deeper.  “Integrity” comes from the Latin “integer” which in math refers to a whole number.  Integrity of one’s word means our word is whole and complete.  

“Being whole and complete with our word entails living one hundred percent of our word, one hundred percent of the time.”  In other words, our word is our bond.  We can be bound by our words. (MB)

Kevin continues:  “Integrity is a revered quality that brings extraordinary worth and value to one’s life.  One of the highest compliments one can be paid is to be called a person of complete integrity.” 

Kevin and others have talked about sine cera – without wax.  Listen to how Kevin relates this concept.

“In old Italy, unscrupulous sculptors would hide flaws in their work by filling them with wax, thus presenting their sculptures to be what they were not.  It was only a matter of time until the wax would melt or crumble away, revealing the flaw in both the work and the artist. 

“Authentic artisans began identifying their artwork as genuine by stamping each piece with the Latin words “sine cera.”  “Sine” meant without, and “cera” connoted wax.  A ‘sincere sculpture’ was one made without wax.” 


William Shakespeare knew a thing or two about putting meaningful words together.  He once said:  “This above all; to Thine own self be true; and it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.”

“Integrity means a life of wholeness.” 

For eleven weeks I’ve known that this word was coming.  I confess that I am one of those desiring to have the word “Integrity” attached to my name and the person of P Michael Biggs.  I would not presume yet to claim that title for I am still a work in progress.  I’ve had moments of great integrity.  Yet I’ve had moments of less than stellar performance. 


Integrity is a journey, not a destination.  I am on the path in search of it.  Every day I set my foot in its direction and get to make choices that will either lead me to it or cause me to lose sight of it.

What a worthy pursuit.

-My prayer for all of us is that we lean into Integrity

-May we go after it with diligent consistency

-May we focus on living a quality life,
and may we honor our word,
our commitments, and our calling.


Will you join me in this pilgrimage toward INTEGRITY?


P Michael Biggs
Hope and Encouragement in Sight
One Word at a Time