Moments of ‘Stupid’
January 16,
2017
Carolyn and
I got new iPhones a while back. For two
or three days, I felt stupid. I knew my
old phone so well, and now this – this stupid-maker needed to be unlocked and
turned into a functioning tool.
For a while I
felt stupid. And then it worked. I learned.
This happens
to all of us, doesn’t it? And isn’t that
the way we learn?
I have a
friend who is a biological researcher.
She probably feels stupid for most of her work hours, for she is working
on a cure for a certain strain of cancer.
Can you imagine leaving work every day and having feelings of ‘stupid’?
And she
keeps going back to work. She keeps
trying to unlock the code to success.
Aren’t we glad she does, and others like her?
Stupid has a
partner you know. FEAR!
When we feel
stupid we are afraid.
~What if I never
succeed?
~What if I never get another date?
~What if I flunk this test?
~What if I fall on my face in front of
everybody?
And we try
anyway. We continue to get back up,
swing the bat a few more times or run the quarter-back sneak play one more
time.
Unfortunately,
our mighty Seahawks lost their chance to play in this year’s Superbowl. I don’t know all the emotions running through
their collective minds but I’m sure some feel stupid over a certain
out-of-position move on a certain play.
And perhaps there is a touch of fear of “will we ever win another
Superbowl?
The answer
to all of this?
Yes! We can win again. We can find the cure. WE CAN!
And
how?
Maybe
through some simple changes. My
biologist friend doesn’t keep doing the same test with the same ingredients
hoping for a different answer. She
changes.
SHE CHANGES!
Change
hurts. Change is often no fun.
And we do it
anyway.
Change can
bring growth. Change can be a great
thing.
Change might
may us feel stupid for a while. And we
hate the feeling of stupid.
However … how
about looking at life this way …
Stupid could
be a good thing. What if stupid simply
means …
I may not
know the answer today, but I’m closer than yesterday, I’m better than last week
or last season. And ‘stupid’ then
becomes our motivator toward knowledge, skills gained, and making an iPhone
work.
Stupid can
be a very good thing.
Very good!
P Michael Biggs
Offering Hope
Encouragement
Inspiration
One Word at a Time